Monday, January 9, 2017

GSC MODULE 35 - NICODEMUS [PART TWO] PATH TO DISCIPLESHIP



GOOD SHEPHERD CHURCH SEMINARY
MODULE 35

NICODEMUS [PART TWO] - 
PATH TO DISCIPLESHIP

Objectives: By the end of this Module you should;

  • Know about Nicodemus
  • Understand how Nicodemus came to belief in Jesus
  • Have knowledge about scriptural texts regarding Nicodemus
  • Have insight into the conflict between Jesus and the Pharisees
  • Be able to preach a sermon about Nicodemus

Contents;
1. Path to discipleship
2. Troubled times
3. Challenging Temple authority
4. Temple tax
5. Nicodemus defends Jesus

1. Path to discipleship
The life of Nicodemus the Pharisee is an extraordinary one of a man hesitantly visiting a preacher by night to becoming a public follower when the man was dead.
  Nicodemus and Joseph of Arimathea were two influential men who had not yet dared to fully profess their discipleship.

  Nicodemus was a highly regarded representative of the educated class of Israel.
  He was a powerful Pharisee, a member of the Sanhedrin, the Jewish ruling council.
  Nicodemus was known to be an immensely wealthy man and extremely influential in Jewish society.
  This Pharisee was both respectable and deeply religious.

The Pharisees and those in religious and political circles were well aware of the tremendous phenomenon that was Jesus' ministry in Israel and beyond.
  Jesus had shrewdly built a core band of disciples and also attracted the attention of followers such as Mary Magdalene.
  The Rabbi preached in the synagogues and manifested great signs and wonders in confirmation of His authority as Son of God.

Nicodemus realized that Jesus, an excellent strategist, was making use of the long established network of synagogues to preach and lecture, and spread His radical new message.
  God had come to earth in the form of a man who had the muscles and sweat of a carpenter, the mind of a genius theologian philosopher and the personality of a radical.

  Yet Nicodemus still considered he had grounds for doubt.
  Would God deign to incarnate in the form of a mere human?
  Would His Infinite Godhood not be insulted by the mere thought of such an incarnation?
  Would such incarnation not be grounds for absolute blasphemy?
  Was the Messiah not meant to be the long prophesied follower of God upon earth, not God Himself?

  Whatever his issues, Nicodemus appreciated how cannily Jesus had taken His preaching to villages on the shore of the Sea of Galilee after the inhabitants of Nazareth decisively rejected both Him and His Message.

News of miraculous healings reached the Sanhedrin not only by popular report and rumour, but also by attested reports from synagogue priests.

  By the time Jesus performed His first public miracle in Cana, His organization was growing from its infancy into a recognizable structure.

  He now carried out a campaign of tremendous miracles. 
  Unlike the Pharisees, Jesus led a simple lifestyle. His mother, expert in weaving, had woven Him a garment in one piece - no seams - which kept Him protected from the dust and sun as He tramped the long roads.
  A cloak served as blanket by night and covering by day.
  This simply dressed Man walked from town to town. 
  The band of male and female disciples who accompanied Him caused occasion for scandal and comment.

  It was unheard of for decent women to consort openly with unmarried men in a band of people.
  Yet this is just what Jesus' disciples did - at His express instigation.
  Men and women are equals, and as equals they are called and follow Him.
  
  Jesus had no horse, no litter to carry Him as the rich did. 
  He had no home to call His own, no family to be His earthly descendants, no wife or children to bring Him comfort.
  Nicodemus had heard of the words Jesus spoke about His life.
  'Foxes have holes and birds have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay His Head.' 
[Luke 9:58]

  Jesus brought a powerful message, enshrined in His simple lifestyle.
  True wealth is the truth of being a human son or daughter of the Most High God.
  Great beauty does not lie within evenness of form and face, but inner holiness of spirit.

  Jesus was showing society that we are all one human family.
  We can confidently call everyone brother, or sister.
  Our loyalty and love is not only meant for close blood and familial ties.
  They are also meant for everyone we meet.
Jesus had brought the message that the Kingdom of God is, indeed, among us.

Jesus proved troublesome.
  He was overturning the status quo, changing the course of events.
  Satan and his followers were by now in a state of emergency.
  Jesus was casting out demons from their unlawful habitation of humans by means of exorcism.
 Jesus was deliberately, and effectively, threatening satanic rule upon earth.

Whispers flew to all corners of Israel concerning Jesus.
  As Jesus' influence grew, so did Palace and Temple nervousness.
  Hannah, wife of Herod's steward, left the steward's side to follow Jesus and to help care for Him. [Luke 8:3]
  Rumours circulated as far as the Roman palace. Pilate's wife heard rumours about the holy Rabbi Who healed.

  The Sanhedrin followed Jesus' career closely.
One member of the Sanhedrin - the highest Jewish religious authority of Israel - had become deeply interested in Jesus, His teachings and works.

  Nicodemus the Pharisee had begun to believe that Jesus might, in fact, be the true Messiah.
  He sought after, and received, private audience with Jesus.
  Nicodemus returned from the interview a deeply thoughtful man.
  There was much he did not understand. He knew, too, that Jesus was treading on dangerous political ground.

  The carpenter from Nazareth had made powerful enemies among the Pharisees, as well as among Herod's court.
  A plot against the life of Jesus began to gain momentum.
  Nicodemus, skilled in political and religious circles, resolved to do what he could to safeguard the life of the Man he suspected to be the Messiah long awaited by Israel.

2. Troubled times
Jesus and His disciples were forging a troubled history with the Pharisees.
  Jesus constantly criticized many of the Pharisees, and in public at that.
  The Pharisees were, as a group, impeccably religious; and a number of their brethren ruled the religious and social life of Israel.

  On various occasions Jesus robustly condemned their lives and teaching as being misleading.
  Jesus was the master of direct insult, and stung many an ego and conscience.
  Nicodemus stroked his beard thoughtfully as he heard of some of the insults.
  
'Woe to you, teachers of the law, and Pharisees, you hypocrites!
  You give a tenth of your spices - mint, dill, and cumin.
  But you have neglected the more important matters of the law - justice, mercy and faithfulness.
  You should have practised the latter, without neglecting the former.
  Blind guides! You strain out a gnat but swallow a camel!' [Matthew 23:23-24]

Jesus called the Pharisees full of greed and self-indulgence. [Matthew 23:25]
  He went so far as to call the Pharisees whitewashed tombs which look beautiful on the outside but inside are full of dead bones and everything unclean. [Matthew 23:27]
  This was fighting talk; and the Pharisees were not slow to respond.

  The Teacher scandalized scribes in His audience when He forgave the sins of a paralyzed man in Capernaum. 
  Jesus' assumption of the authority of God in the sphere of forgiveness of sins was perceived as blasphemy.
  Jesus thereafter healed the man, attesting to His authority to forgive sins. [Mark 2:1-12]

3. Challenging Temple authority
Jesus' public ministry had grown in intensity and His followers in numbers.
  His public profile increasingly affected the Sanhedrin meeting agenda for a variety of reasons.
  Jesus confronted Temple laws such as those pertaining to work on the Sabbath.
  
One instance was at the Pool of Bethesda, an ancient pool within the very shadow of the Temple itself.
  Jesus was in Jerusalem for a feast of the Jews, when He spent some time at the pool.
  
Bethesda was located near the Sheep Gate and was surrounded by five porticoes.
  The arched colonnade sheltered large numbers of invalids; blind, lame, paralyzed.
  One man had been lying there, praying for a cure, for thirty-eight years.

  Those lying there in such misery were excluded from Temple worship by reason of their condition.
  The pool waters were troubled from time to time when an angel visited the pool.
  It is believed that the angel in question was Archangel Raphael. [1]

  Whoever managed to get into the pool first after the angel troubled the waters, was immediately healed of their disease.
  The paralyzed man had waited at the pool for thirty eight years. As he had no-one to put him into the pool waters, someone else had always got into the water ahead of him, and so he never received healing.
  
  Jesus - touched by the sad story - healed the man.
The healing occurred on the Sabbath, and Jesus told the man to take up his bed and walk.
  The man did so. This action of Jesus caused offence because the healing and the carrying of the bed occurred on the Sabbath.
  These actions were deemed as work, and thus not allowed on the holy day.
  
  Yet Nicodemus pondered. If Jesus indeed was the Messiah, then Divine authority was in the process of changing the understood construct of religion.
  Temple change was in the air.

4. Temple tax
Over the years, Jesus had observed temple taxation.
  Not only were men of Israel subject to tax by the Romans, but there was also the temple tax to pay.
  Special officers were appointed over the temple treasury.
  It was their duty to collect the half-shekel, or tax levied upon the male heads of Israel for the upkeep of the temple, which the officer at Capernaum asked of Jesus. [Matthew 17:24]

  The Temple further had its own currency, so visitors were obliged to change the Roman coins in current usage into Temple currency - and were charged for the service. 

  This hit the poor very hard, and Jesus started pushing towards radical reform.
  Temple tax should become a burden belonging to the past.
  
  Income of the Chief Priests, Sanhedrin, temple priests, guards and servants were all influenced by temple taxation.
  The controversy around temple tax boiled over when Jesus drove out the money changers, and knocked over their tables and the chairs of those selling doves.
  Through this decisive action, Jesus directly challenged temple authority and signalled that Jews should no longer pay prescribed taxes.
  By doing so, Jesus sealed His own death penalty as temple leaders were not prepared to accept this challenge to their leadership.

5. Nicodemus defends Jesus
The secret nocturnal meeting between Jesus and Nicodemus was not without results.
  Nicodemus left Jesus' Presence resolved to do all within his power to protect the safety of Jesus.

In effect, a dangerous turn had occurred in the events of the life of Jesus.
  His claim as the prophesied Messiah had split the until then united society of Pharisees into two distinct groups; those who discreetly supported Jesus and those who were directly antagonistic to Jesus.
  Jesus' message was now directly affecting temple leadership; and the High priest and chief priests were not slow to perceive the threat.
  
When the latter group of Pharisees sent guards to arrest Jesus in the temple, Nicodemus used his influence and knowledge of Jewish law to protect Jesus.
  He challenged his fellow Pharisees, 'Does our law condemn anyone without first hearing him to find out what he is doing?'
  Stung, they retorted, 'Are you from Galilee, too?
Look into it, and you will find that a prophet does not come come out of Galilee.' [John 7:50-52]

Influential Pharisees partisan to the Rabbi - and possibly, Nicodemus among them - warned Jesus of the plot against His life.
  Pharisees 'came to Jesus and said to Him, "Leave this place and go somewhere else, Herod wants to kill you." ' [Luke 13:31]
  Jesus disregarded the warning, informing those concerned that He had to press on, for surely no prophet can die outside Jerusalem.

  Jesus thus knew with certainty that if He continued on His chosen path, He was going forward to death.
  Yet the loyalty and concern of these Pharisees must have warmed the heart of the Son of David.

  Nicodemus defended Jesus on another occasion, at the Feast of Tabernacles.
  Jesus boldly went up to the temple courts and taught as was His wont.
  During the course of His preaching, He challenged the crowd as to the reason they wanted Him killed.
  They responded by insulting Him.
' "You are demon-possessed," the crowd answered, "Who is trying to kill you?" ' [John 7:20]
  The Pharisees antagonistic to Jesus then sent the temple guard to arrest him - without success as it turned out.

On the third and greatest day of the Festival, Jesus stood and shouted in a loud voice, "Let anyone who is thirsty come to Me and drink.
Whoever believes in Me, as Scripture has said, rivers of living water will flow from within them."
By this He meant the Spirit, whom those who believed in Him were later to receive.
[John:37-39]

When the temple guards came back to the Chief priests and the Pharisees without having arrested Jesus, they were questioned as to the reason.
  ' "No-one ever spoke the way this Man does," the guards replied. 
"You mean He has deceived you also?" the Pharisees retorted.
"Have any of the rulers or of the Pharisees believed in Him? No!" ' [John 7:47-49]
  They then called a curse down upon the crowd.

Nicodemus defended Jesus by means of Jewish law - "Does our law condemn a man without first hearing him to find out what he has been doing?" [John 7:51]

The Chief priests and antagonistic Pharisees thereupon insulted Nicodemus.
  They were now alerted to the fact that Nicodemus was sympathetic to the cause of Jesus.
  It was clear that any attempt on the life of Jesus would encounter stout legal opposition from within their own ranks.
  
  They deliberated on the best way forward. The result was a special trial by night, and a swift sentence of execution before both became widely known among the followers of Jesus.
  
  As Jesus' life was winding towards an inexorable denouement, Nicodemus was maturing in his discipleship.
  Soon events would find Nicodemus fighting in court for the life of Jesus. . .

Rev Catherine
  
  




  
  
   




Monday, January 2, 2017

GOOD SHEPHERD CHURCH SEMINARY, MODULE 34. NICODEMUS [PART ONE] - THE SACRAMENTS



GOOD SHEPHERD CHURCH SEMINARY
MODULE 34
NICODEMUS [PART ONE] -
THE SACRAMENTS

Objectives:  By the end of this Module you should;
1. Know about Nicodemus
2. Have knowledge about the visit of Nicodemus
    to Jesus
3. Be equipped to teach about the Sacrament of
    Baptism
4. Know that the Spirit gives birth to spirit
5. Understand that God loved the world so much
    He gave us His Only Son
6. Be able to give a sermon on Nicodemus with
    reference to New Testament sources
7. Understand that Jesus instituted the Sacraments
8. Be able to testify to the teaching of Jesus 
    regarding the lifting of the snake in the 
    wilderness by Moses

Contents;
1.    Who was Nicodemus?
2.    Burden of Proof
3.    Baptism and the Spirit
4.    Sacrament of Baptism
5.    Holy Spirit and Sacraments
6.    Prophecy of the Sacraments
7.    God's gift to Humanity
   8.    Parting

1.     Who Was Nicodemus?
As the night owl swooped, the hurrying figure of a darkly cloaked man cast shadows on the Jerusalem house walls.
  As Nicodemus came to the place where Jesus sat with His disciples, it was illuminating to realize that Jesus so trusted this man that He gave him knowledge of his whereabouts.

  Nicodemus was both a powerful Pharisee and a member of the Sanhedrin; the Jewish ruling council.
  This leader, a respected, wealthy and influential member of Jewish society in Jerusalem, came to talk with Jesus in private.

  Nicodemus had first become aware of Jesus’ ministry as rumours and reports of His teachings and healings filtered back to the Temple.
  News had most likely reached Jerusalem about a failed stoning in Nazareth
  A carpenter’s son had proclaimed Himself the fulfilment of the prophecy of Isaiah in the local synagogue; thus laying claim that He was indeed the Messiah promised by God.
  Nicodemus had probably heard that this Man had been taken up for blasphemy in the synagogue, and had managed to escape the stoning.

 That alone was unusual. What was more remarkable was His age; the same span of years which the boy-children of the royal Davidic bloodline would have been if they had not been massacred in the region of Bethlehem
  Somehow this young man appeared to have escaped the Bethlehem massacre.

Nicodemus was keenly aware that the timeline of Jesus' life fit exactly with a number of events which had excited discussion and comment within the Sanhedrin within the previous decades.
 The priest Zechariah had received angelic vision in the Temple, been struck dumb and thereafter the unexpected birth of the infant John took place.

  This predestined boy was the cousin of Jesus of Nazareth, and had been preaching and baptizing while making public announcement of the coming of the Messiah.
  He was acknowledged as prophet of the Lord by the people of Israel.

  The holy Simon and Anna, prophets within the Temple, had witnessed that the Messiah had been born and dedicated within the Jerusalem Temple itself.

  Furthermore, a stir had been experienced within the Temple years before when a twelve year old genius village boy had been involved in lengthy discussions with the top teachers of the law.
  Nicodemus had learned that the boy - instead of attending rabbinic study within the Temple - had returned home with His parents.
  To Nazareth. The town of Jesus. Everything was falling into place for Nicodemus.

  He himself had witnessed signs and wonders, healing and teaching of Jesus.
  He had even seen dead people raised again to life by Jesus. 
  Various of the Sanhedrin and Temple staff were annoyed by the contretemps the ministry of Jesus created within the Temple; they elected to believe that Jesus was under demonic influence.

  Nicodemus believed differently. It was wholly possible - he concluded - that based on evidence, it was not inconceivable, but probable, that Jesus might be the long promised Messiah.

2. Burden of Proof
A cautious and religious man, Nicodemus followed Jesus’ career with ever increasing interest.

The reported witness of Simeon at the circumcision of Jesus was 
'Now, Lord, let Your servant go in peace as You promised:
for my eyes have seen Your Salvation,
which You have prepared in the sight of all nations:
a light of revelation to the Gentiles,
and the glory of Your people Israel.' [Luke 2:29 - 32]

The prophetess Anna, daughter of Phanuel of the tribe of Asher, came along as Simeon was talking with Mary and Joseph.
  She began to praise God, and talked about the Child to everyone who had been awaiting expectantly for God to rescue Jerusalem. 
[Luke 2:38].

John the Baptist had witnessed that Jesus is the Messiah, saying;

'Behold the Lamb of God, Who takes away the sins of the world.
This is He of Whom I said 'A Man comes after me Who has surpassed me because He was before Me. 
I myself did not know Him, but the reason I came baptizing with water was that He might be revealed to Israel.'
  John had given further testimony with the following words, 
'I saw the Spirit come down from Heaven as a Dove and remain on Him.
And I myself did not know Him, but the One Who sent me to baptize with water told me, "The Man on Whom you see the Spirit come down and remain is the One Who will baptize with the Holy Spirit." I have seen and I testify that this is God's Chosen One.' [John 1:29 - 34].

These were powerful witnesses; yet were they enough?
  Nicodemus reasoned that in Jesus, he had found one who spoke with authority and power.

  Yet was Jesus the Messiah? Israel had known false prophets before, and when a member of the Sanhedrin spoke, only measured and factual evidence should be presented to the people of God.
  Yet Nicodemus became more and more convinced that Jesus might indeed be the promised Messiah.

  Nicodemus personally witnessed varied of Jesus' preachings, teachings and healings: particularly those carried out within the Temple.
  Reports flooded in from synagogues all over the country and from regions beyond of healing wonders carried out by Jesus.
  A number of official reports had been received by the Sanhedrin from synagogue priests detailing successful healings at the hands of Jesus.
  This had been done at the request of Jesus, and in accordance with the Law. [Luke 17:14].

All the evidence pointed to one fact: Nicodemus had to put the claim of Jesus to the test.
  There was only one way he knew to begin this process; that was to meet with Jesus for discussion.
  However, so much controversy was swirling in religious and political circles as a result of Jesus' ministry, that Nicodemus resolved to ask for a private meeting.

Nicodemus approach in secret for a nocturnal meeting had various benefits.
  The two men would be able to discuss various issues without the pressure of public crowds, heckling or public dissension. 
  Pressure and threat from the Sanhedrin and the Temple guard would be avoided.
  Jesus and the safety of His disciples would be assured. He would have sufficient time within peaceful circumstances in order to explain His position with clarity to the Sanhedrin representative.
  Nicodemus could assess the claim of Jesus and His teachings, with  no compromise to his personal position and standing within the Temple and societal circles.


  Away from the public eye, the two were able to talk freely – Nicodemus, to explore Jesus’ teachings. 
  Jesus, to explore Nicodemus’ search for truth.

 Nicodemus was aware of various issues surrounding Jesus' claim to be Messiah.
  Not least among them was the dichotomy which Jesus presented.
The carpenter from Nazareth turned rabbi did not fit the profile of a Davidic king of warrior tendency and military leaning.
  What then, was His plan to fulfil the destiny of Messiah and to win the support of the people of Israel?


3. Baptism and the Spirit
Nicodemus courteously greeted Jesus with honour as Rabbi. 
  He affirmed that he was member of a group who knew that Jesus was a teacher who has come from God.
  The reason Nicodemus gave for their belief was that no one could perform the signs Jesus was doing if God were not with him. [John 3:2]

  As time wore on, the discussion between the Pharisee and the Christ took a most unexpected turn.
  Instead of Nicodemus leading the discussion, Jesus took the opportunity to explore deeper theological realities with the powerful Sanhedrin member.
  He challenged Nicodemus to fathom the reality of the great Sacraments He was forging on earth.
  Rather than raise up earthly armies and pitting military might and causing suffering on earth, Jesus had laid celestial military campaign.
  He was going to storm the very foundations of demonic holdings on earth and wrest humanity from the dominion of satan.
  This would be done through divine sacraments of baptism, water, Holy Spirit, eucharist, crucifixion leading to redemption and eternal life.
  God's master plan was not strategy leading to earthly rule.
  He planned a new Kingdom, a new Heaven; with everlasting Davidic rule by Jesus Christ as Emperor of the cosmos.

4. Sacrament of Baptism  
Jesus intended to begin the divination process of each human by means of divine infusion. 
  His first laid strategy was to infuse divine life - the very life of God Himself - into human beings.
  This would be effected by removal of the defacement of the Image of God within each person which had been wrought by the fall.
  The defacement - or removal of the stain of original sin - would be brought about by the action of the Holy Spirit of God.

  The Spirit of God would be called upon the person, and would carry out God's work upon the spirit.
  An earthly sign to witness to the inward reality of divine action, and one easily discernable to all humanity - and demonic entities - would be the sign of water.

5. Holy Spirit and Sacraments
  Nicodemus had attended the meeting with Jesus for the purpose of learning more about Him.
  To this honest man of integrity Jesus gave the honour of knowledge of the Sacrament of Baptism and the Nature of the Holy Spirit of God.

  Jesus explained to Nicodemus that no one can see the Kingdom of God unless they are born again.
  Nicodemus assumed that Jesus was speaking in the literal, physical sense. 
  He enquired how someone could be born when they are old; surely they could not enter their mother’s womb a second time in order to be born. [John 3:3-4]
  Jesus' answer was that no one can enter the Kingdom of God [a heavenly Kingdom] unless reborn of water and the Spirit.
  Simply put, Jesus is speaking about spiritual rebirth through the Sacrament of Baptism.

  Jesus told Nicodemus that the body gives birth to another body, but the Spirit of God gives birth to the spirit.
  As our mother’s body gives birth to our physical form, so God’s Spirit gives birth to our spiritual form.
  In order for us to metamorphose successfully from our physical body on planet earth into our eternal spiritual being capable of existing eternally in Heaven, we have to undergo a new birth.

  Our spirits are born of God Himself through a mysterious process which we undergo through the physical symbolism of poured water during sacrament while here on earth.

  Nicodemus was utterly astounded. So much so, that Jesus responded to his surprised face with the words, 'You should not be surprised at my saying, "You must be born again." The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit.”'[John 3:8 - The Greek for Spirit is the same as that for wind]

  The Greek for ‘you’ is plural; so Jesus was speaking to the group of whom Nicodemus was the spokesman.
  The Greek for ‘Spirit’ is the same as that for ‘wind’. 
  So Jesus explained that the spirit is a force humanly unseen; yet, the spirit is reality nevertheless.
  Nicodemus asked how this could be; the teaching was unclear to him. 
  Jesus challenged Nicodemus as Sanhedrin member - foremost religious and spiritual teacher - as to his inability to understand these things.

  The Messiah then affirmed in most solemn terms that ‘we speak of what we know, and we testify to what we have seen,’ [John 3:11]
  Jesus thus gave witness to His knowledge of the Godhood and the mysteries of God Himself.

6. Prophecy of the Sacraments 
Jesus further prepared Nicodemus for the miracle of His Resurrection, and for the Sacrament of the Eucharist.
  He explained that as the great Prophet Moses had lifted up the snake in the wilderness, He as the Son of Man must be lifted up.

  As the fatally afflicted people of Israel looked upon the bronze serpent and lived, so humanity fatally poisoned by sin are destined to look up at the Figure of the Son of God upon the Cross, and to receive redemption and eternal life from Him.

  Jesus was explaining the steps towards the Sacraments of Eucharist, Forgiveness of Sins, Administration of Graces and Preparation for Eternal Life.

  Crucifixion, death and Resurrection would effect the background to the great Sacrament of the Eucharist.
  Furthermore, the sacrament of the forgiveness of sins would be effected at the foot of the cross where 'but one drop of blood which for sinners is spilt, is sufficient to cleanse the whole world of its guilt.' [1]
 In other words, the innocent Blood of the Lamb of God, Jesus God's only Son, is the only means by which we could be reconciled to God after the complete rift in relationship between God and humanity.

7. God's Gift to Humanity
Jesus affirmed to Nicodemus that God loved the world [humanity] so much that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.
  God did not send Jesus into the world to judge and condemn humanity, but to save the world through Him.
  Jesus further explained that those who do not believe in His Messianic status are in danger of not taking advantage of the opportunity for eternal life on offer.

  Jesus gave God's verdict. The Light of God had come into the world through His Person and teachings, but people loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil.
  Everyone who does evil hates the Light of God, and will not come into His Light for fear that their deeds will be exposed.
  But whoever lives by the truth comes into God’s Light, so that it may be seen plainly that what they have done has been done in the sight of God. [John 3:16-21]

8.     Parting
And so the two – Jesus, descended from Davidic royalty, sired mysteriously, birthed in an animal dugout and with the muscles of a hard-working carpenter – had met with Nicodemus, a Pharisee born into a privileged and comfortable lifestyle.
  After their parting, Nicodemus discreetly retired home with much to ponder . . .

Rev Catherine



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[1] Good Night to Our Blessed Mother


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Sunday, January 1, 2017

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Monday, December 26, 2016

GSC MODULE 33; WEDDING AND MARRIAGE


GOOD SHEPHERD CHURCH SEMINARY
MODULE 33
WEDDING AND MARRIAGE

MARRIAGE CHANGES THE VERY BEING OF A MAN AND WOMAN.
Marriage is the complete giving of a man and a woman to each other while receiving with complete openness the gift of the other. [1]

  Marriage is an extraordinary event, a remarkable act of love and generosity to give oneself so completely to another, and to accept the gift of the other. [1]

  Through sacramental marriage, the very being of those getting married changes to a new reality.
  No longer are they simply a man and woman but a husband and a wife, parts of a totality. [1]

  Their individual interests are no longer their primary concern. Now their marriage comes first.
  Love must come before any personal comfort, desires or ambition. [1]
  
  The wedding vows form a new, unbreakable unity, the married couple. 
  This love can be helped by strong mutual attraction, but in itself it must be grounded on a solid and stable basis - a life-long commitment; [1]
  Marriage is a journey on which the two embark; their unity should deepen over the years through their daily loving care. [1]

Marriage disruption
Marriage disruption can occur; at times this can be due to selfishness on the part of one or both the spouses. 
  It may result from their betrayal or failure of love. [1]
  In such a case, the way forward is repentance and the renewal of the marriage commitment. [1]

Physical intimacy
Physical intimacy is designed by God to be the 'body language' of married love; its purpose is to express and deepen the love of husband and wife for each other. [1]
  Physical intimacy also brings children into the marriage. 
  It is a blessing for the wife to have the protection of a sound marriage and financial support during her vulnerable time as future mother, during the birth and afterwards. 
  God has designed the marriage bond well to protect the family through the times of love, new birth to the world, and the nurturing of offspring from infancy to adulthood.

Engagement
Marriage should not be undertaken lightly. 
It is the role of the priest to help the engaged couple think about the true ramifications of their impending marriage. 
  The period of engagement is the time for the couple to get to know one another.
  If any warning signs show up, it is better to end an engagement than go through with a wedding one of the parties has misgivings about.

Wedding theme
Once the engaged couple has decided on a wedding date, it is helpful for the priest to have a theme for the wedding sermon and ceremony.

Example:
Wedding Service  - The Symbol of Love
PreparationOn the altar, a beautiful ceramic jar is placed. 
Two smaller jars containing water [symbolizing the individual jars of life of the couple] are placed alongside.
 A small jar can be offered after the ceremony which will serve as a keepsake of their marriage.

The following is the reading;
John 2:1-11: The wedding feast of Cana
On the third day a wedding took place at Cana in Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there, and Jesus and his disciples had also been invited to the wedding. When the wine was gone, Jesus’ mother said to him, “They have no more wine.”
“Woman, why do you involve me?” Jesus replied. “My hour has not yet come.”
His mother said to the servants, “Do whatever he tells you.”
Nearby stood six stone water jars, the kind used by the Jews for ceremonial washing, each holding from twenty to thirty gallons.
Jesus said to the servants, “Fill the jars with water”; so they filled them to the brim.
Then he told them, “Now draw some out and take it to the master of the banquet.”
They did so, and the master of the banquet tasted the water that had been turned into wine. He did not realize where it had come from, though the servants who had drawn the water knew. Then he called the bridegroom aside 10 and said, “Everyone brings out the choice wine first and then the cheaper wine after the guests have had too much to drink; but you have saved the best till now.”
11 What Jesus did here in Cana of Galilee was the first of the signs through which he revealed his glory; and his disciples believed in him.
Choice of Second Readings
1 Corinthians 13:4-8a, 13: What love can accomplish
John 15:9-12 Abide in my love

The Sermon
The priest should prepare a sermon which will prove a lasting inspiration for the couple throughout their married lives.


Example;
Jesus performed His first miracle at a wedding in which the water in the jars was changed into wine.
  Dear [name] and [name], the two small jars represent the jars of your life. 
  At your wedding, you now pour your life into one new life. [Here the couple take their individual small jars, and pour the water into the large jar which symbolizes their marriage].
  Your lives will complement each other within your marriage.
  It is important to turn to the Lord at Cana to bless the water of your two lives into the wine of your marriage.
  The water into wine symbolizes the reality that your individual lives have now sacramentally merged into a new and unified reality.

  The new wine is both a sacrament and a mystery. If you both commit to your union, and form a good marriage, both you and others will be able to draw strength from the wine within your jar.
  Unmarried individuals meet challenges on their own. 
  If they are ill, they need to try to care for themselves even if they are bedbound and unable to rise.
  In life difficulties they have to depend on their own strengths, and on the God of Providence.

  In marriage, two individuals form a new unit of strength. 
  In difficulties, they can companion each other and assist each other through the difficulty with their love, support and guidance.
  When ill, they can care for the other. In financial difficulties they can assist each other with the financial fruits of their labours.

  When children come, the family grows and strengthens. 
  Joy is brought to the marriage through the new personalities sent by God to the parents to bless the marriage.

The two partners should work to keep the wine in their jars replenished and full. 
  Sometimes one may be in better health or emotional strength than the other. 
  At these times, they may add more to the marriage jar.
  Conversely, sometimes the other may experience times of weakness, illness or financial difficulties.
  The other then strengthens the marriage in turn.
God created marriage and blessed the institution; it is a proven benison to a couple to get through the changing fortunes of life with a trusted companion.

  However, if the marriage is not cared for, the wine within the jars may run low or diminish altogether.
  It is the privilege of the couple to decide together to each do the best they can to keep the wine of their marriage strong.

  The drops of wine in the jars are the little things in daily life: fidelity, respect, words of friendship and appreciation, thoughtfulness of the other, trust in the other, patience, forgiveness, and love of God.

Blessing during the wedding
The priest binds the hands of the couple together, with the wedding stole.
"I bind your joined hands together with this stole inscribed with the sign of Christ.
  Trust one another and put your security in God Who will be your protection in life.
  May your marriage flourish so you may be the light of the world [Matthew 5:14].
  May your children be brought up in the love of God, so they may grow up in sound body and soul
Amen."

Seven Gifts of the Holy Spirit
Pray for the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit to come upon the new marriage.

The gift of wisdom - the knowledge which makes one slow to speak, and quick to listen; slow to condemn, and quick to forgive; slow to hurt, quick to show love

The gift of understanding - knowing that if your partner has failed you, that human nature is frail.   Be willing to forgive frailties and faults, as your spouse may have to forgive you from time to time.   
  Understanding takes into account the difference between the thinking of man and woman, looks for the common ground, accepts difference in thought and perception, and loves the other for their uniqueness,
  Understanding includes seeing everything with the heart, and to see the Hand of God behind every happening.

  The gift of counsel - ability to accept good advice, and also to good-naturedly give advice.

  The gift of knowledge - to know oneself and one's limitations, to accept the work a true relationship brings, in order to be able to know in a real way the other partner.

  The gift of fortitude - the courage to act on one's convictions. 
  The ability to stand with strength when difficulties may present within the marriage. 
  The determination to love the other at all times, whatever happens in the marriage. 
  The ability to forgive the other when needed.
The ability to strengthen the other when they are suffering, weak or ill. 
  The ability to be a rock of strength for the partner, for extended family members and for children whom God blesses to the union.

  The gift of piety - the practice of prayer, turning in love to God the protector of marriage, and the endeavour to become holy within the marriage bond.

  The gift of honour of God - reverence for God and the inclusion of God as the third partner in the marriage bond.

Virtues helpful within marriage
Three divine virtues are needed within the marriage bond - those of faith, hope and love.
  There are four cardinal virtues: prudence, justice, fortitude and temperance.

  Faith and hope in God forms great strength in the marriage bond. 
  Love for God, the partner and generous kindness to all in society strengthens the believer to become a strong marriage partner. 

Rest
Rest within a marriage is essential. Those who work seven days a week without giving the body, soul and mind a chance to rest are building up difficulties for themselves and their marriage.
  Women need to rest when they find themselves with child, and after childbearing.
  Sufficient nourishment and rest leads to healthy and strong mothers and children.
  
Presence
Presence within a marriage is important. 
Physical as well as mental presence is needed.
  The partner who becomes involved in work to the detriment of the marriage is mistaken in believing this is for the good of the marriage.

  The marriage may become cash rich and time-together poor. 
This is a recipe for disaster, as loneliness and estrangement can open the door to other factors which imperil a marriage.

Respect
Respect is important. The marriage partner who demeans the other in word, body language or actions is belittling the partner.
  This can cause deep damage to the partner, and to the marriage, corroding the very basis of a sound marriage.

Violence
Temper outbursts, intemperate behaviour, name calling, belittling speech and physical violence greatly imperil a marriage.
  It is important for marriage spouses to be aware of their inner emotions and temperament, and invite God to help them become temperate and kindly in action, expression and deed according to the example of Jesus Christ.

Friendship
Friendship is important. Physical expression of affection is not the only strength of a marriage.
  Friendship, conversation and the sharing of joys, anxieties and burdens should be with one another.
  The moment a marriage partner begins sharing deeper thoughts and lengthy periods of time with another outside the marriage bond, the other partner becomes progressively excluded and trouble lies ahead which may even threaten the foundation of the marriage.

Technology
The use of technology in ways which may lead to infidelity in thought, word and action weaken the basis of the marriage.
  It is important for the marriage partner to be temperate and wise in the use of technology.

Fidelity
Fidelity is essential. The marriage partner who finds physical expression outside the marriage may bring illness even of a mortal nature within the marriage, may affect the health of children to be born, and cause irrevocable breakdown of the marriage bond.

Boundaries
Boundaries are needed. Once the married couple form a new unity, old loyalties are sublimated into a new reality; the first loyalty of the husband is to his wife, and the first loyalty of the wife is to her husband.

  The spouse who speaks out of the marriage to a parent, family member or friend, is forming difficulties for the future.
  Over-engagement with another outside of the marriage bond can lead to friction within the marriage.

Children
Children should be warmly welcomed within the marriage.
  No child should be unduly prevented from entering the marriage. 
  The sanctity of life of the unborn child is always to be respected. 
  This is the law of God, and the law of love within the marriage.

Elderly parents
Elderly parents should always be respected, and, insofar as the circumstances of the married couple permit, the elderly parents should be assisted especially in times of frailty and need.

Finances
An old saying goes, "When poverty comes in the door, love goes out the window."
  It is true that a married couple can grow stronger when they face up to financial difficulties together.
  However, gambling, dishonesty in finances and withholding of money for essential items within the family will cause suffering within the family, and place the marriage bond under pressure.

Addictions
Addictions to alcohol and other addictive substances are a financial drain on the family, change the personality of the partner indulging in the addiction, and cause suffering to the partner and the children of the family.
  It is important for the marriage partners to avoid addiction of any kind.

Extended family
Over-engagement with relatives, disloyal speech about the marriage partner with relatives and the free discussion of perceived defects of the marriage partner with relatives may cause difficulties in the marriage bond.
  The entrance of the married couple into the new bond of matrimony brings a new set of loyalties in its wake.
  Love and responsibilities within the familial context to extended family still remains; however, they are modified.
  The mature marriage partner will find creative ways to remain in contact with relatives, without causing detriment to the marriage bond.

Prayer
It is important for the marriage partners to pray, individually, as a couple, as a family once children arrive, and communally in worship at church.
  "The family that prays together stays together."
The family in society needs the grace of God to continue to strengthen and for bonds to grow.
  Prayer is the way which leads to strong marriages.

Honesty
Finally, true honesty and sincerity in a marriage can heal many a difficult situation.
  Sincere love and a true heart in a marriage brings the blessing of Almighty God down upon the union.

[1] Marriage changes the very being of a man and woman. Editor's jottings. March 2009. 'Alive!' newspaper

With thanks to Alive!